Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Self-Serving or Serving Selflessly?


We live in a world where our desire to self-satisfy is gradually outweighing our willingness to help others. The truth is we are a giving country and people volunteering to help people are a tradition that goes back to the colonial days of America. Back then settlers came together for survival and community growth. Their self-sacrifice to work together and overcome obstacles like devastating illness as well as developing farmland they needed for living was the beginnings of volunteer work in the states. Read the following simple timeline for a history of American Volunteer Work- http://charity.lovetoknow.com/History_of_Volunteerism_in_America

Our egos are mostly to blame in this down shift in human interest. We live in a society where womanizing, getting drunk and drugged up and generally taking risks without care of repercussion is portrayed in a positive light. Here is a fine example of twisted perception-


We are programmed from an early age that status and acquisition of wealth is all that matters. Meanwhile our desire to look and act cool is slowly killing our best virtue which is generosity. We appear to be weak minded if we show compassion for our fellow man who is not doing as well as we are. Even institutions of higher learning, that once were a breeding ground for bright ideas and positive social change, are merely now just a place we are told go and do your time as it will net you a big payday, which is far from the truth.

Where can we change this scary trend in our daily lives? Go on the internet and search local charities and foundations. I am sure you will find a cause that will not only be of personal interest to you but also be easy to get involved with. Expose your children to the thought of kindness towards others. I suggest bringing them to a retirement home and let them spend time with the patients. They will get a good feeling from the smiles of the elderly, a feeling that even Sponge Bob and Ronald McDonald cannot give them. Finally, do not feel like one person can’t make a positive impact. I am attaching a link to a foundation I am fond of and want to put a spotlight on. It is proof we can help people while instilling valuable life skills, not only for the needy but for ourselves.

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